By, Akeem Breedy-Kellman, FOUN 1101 Caribbean Civilisation student
Rubina Scantlebury, is my
Barbadian aunt; the “fourth” daughter of my grandmother. Auntie Rubina was born
in 1952. At the tender age of six years, her parents departed Barbados, to seek
job opportunities in England. For another five years, she attended to her
younger siblings in Barbados, with other close relatives. At the age of 11
years, her parents, Elma Bayley and Lambert Bayley sent a letter, telling her
to come to England with her siblings.
At such an age, my aunt was
ecstatic about going to England, yet, her only expectation was to meet her
parents. All she could do is place the nursery stories such as “Tom, Tom, the
Piper’s Son” and the many pictures against the imaginary setting of England.
The teachers at the St. Stephen’s School where she attended taught her the traditions
of England, but had never been there. Auntie Rubina and her younger sisters
were assisted by a flight attendant, from one airport into the other. As soon
as auntie landed upon English soil, she confronted the very cold weather, so
much so that coats and warm clothes were bought the day after their arrival.
England was a dark environment with a lot of fog, and mostly white faces
populated this foreign place with its landscape that was far larger and colder
than Barbados. Auntie Rubina was blown away, and she was totally unprepared for
such a journey. My aunt had to adjust to the language and the population had an
accent which was difficult to follow. The food was also different. Nothing done
differently in Barbados, would prepare her for this migration, even the nursery
stories seemed to be true fallacies. Her worst experience occurred when she
applied for jobs at the age of 17. She had to confront much racism. Although
the “Mother Country” was seen as a place of opportunity, the population did not
accept or want Caribbean people, especially black people, within the land. She
had to work twice as hard as her white counterparts. Nevertheless, such a
migratory experience broadened her perspectives of the world, and equipped her
to have a good life; having retired from a successful job and acquired a good
education. Such an experience enabled her to work with those of various
cultures and ethnicities. She was and is also able to provide for her family,
financially and emotionally in Barbados and England. She considers herself as a
contributor to the multicultural society in England, which England has also
benefited from. Unfortunately, upon returning to Barbados after forty years,
she had to reintegrate herself into the Barbadian society and she believed her
Barbadian identity was lost because of the migration. I would not migrate
because I love the land in which I was born and I want to contribute to my
home.
The experience of my aunt,
reflects the migratory experience of many tender children in the mid 20th century, but
she was able to overcome the challenges, and reap rewards benefiting herself,
family and England.
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